The Resource Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life, Terri Apter
Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life, Terri Apter
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The item Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life, Terri Apter represents a specific, individual, material embodiment of a distinct intellectual or artistic creation found in Yuma County Library District.
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- Summary
- "Do you know that praise is essential to the growth of a healthy brain? That experiences of praise and blame affect how long we live? That the conscious and unconscious judgments we engage in every day began as a crucial survival technique? Do you think people shouldn't be judgmental? But, how judgmental are you, and how does this impact your relationships? [The author] reveals how everyday judgments impact our relationships, and how praise, blame, and shame shape our sense of self. Our obsession with praise and blame begins soon after birth. Totally dependent on others, rapidly we learn to value praise, and to fear the consequences of blame. Despite outgrowing an infant's dependence, we continue to monitor others' judgments of us, and we ourselves develop what relational psychologist Terri Apter calls a "judgment meter," which constantly scans people and our interactions with them, and registers a positive or negative opinion. In[this book, the author] reveals how interactions between parents and children, within couples, and among friends and colleagues are permeated with praise and blame that range far beyond specific compliments and accusations. Drawing on three decades of research, [the author] gives us the tools to learn about our personal needs, goals and values, to manage our biases, to tolerate others' views, and to make sense of our most powerful, and often confusing, responses to ourselves and to others."--Amazon.com
- Language
- eng
- Edition
- First Edition.
- Extent
- vii, 314 pages
- Contents
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- Introduction
- The beginnings of human judgment
- The chemistry, economics, and psychology of praise
- Blame: the necessity and devastation of guilt and shame
- Family judgments, family systems
- Just friends: praise and blame between peers
- Intimate judgments: praise and blame within couples
- Professional dues: praise and blame in the workplace
- Social media and the new challenges to our judgment meter
- Lifelong judgments
- Isbn
- 9780393247855
- Label
- Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life
- Title
- Passing judgment
- Title remainder
- praise and blame in everyday life
- Statement of responsibility
- Terri Apter
- Title variation
- Praise & blame in everyday life
- Language
- eng
- Summary
- "Do you know that praise is essential to the growth of a healthy brain? That experiences of praise and blame affect how long we live? That the conscious and unconscious judgments we engage in every day began as a crucial survival technique? Do you think people shouldn't be judgmental? But, how judgmental are you, and how does this impact your relationships? [The author] reveals how everyday judgments impact our relationships, and how praise, blame, and shame shape our sense of self. Our obsession with praise and blame begins soon after birth. Totally dependent on others, rapidly we learn to value praise, and to fear the consequences of blame. Despite outgrowing an infant's dependence, we continue to monitor others' judgments of us, and we ourselves develop what relational psychologist Terri Apter calls a "judgment meter," which constantly scans people and our interactions with them, and registers a positive or negative opinion. In[this book, the author] reveals how interactions between parents and children, within couples, and among friends and colleagues are permeated with praise and blame that range far beyond specific compliments and accusations. Drawing on three decades of research, [the author] gives us the tools to learn about our personal needs, goals and values, to manage our biases, to tolerate others' views, and to make sense of our most powerful, and often confusing, responses to ourselves and to others."--Amazon.com
- Cataloging source
- DLC
- http://library.link/vocab/creatorName
- Apter, T. E
- Dewey number
- 153.4/6
- Index
- index present
- Literary form
- non fiction
- Nature of contents
- bibliography
- http://library.link/vocab/subjectName
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- Judgment
- Judgment (Ethics)
- Blame
- Praise
- Label
- Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life, Terri Apter
- Bibliography note
- Includes bibliographical references (pages 253-304) and index
- Carrier category
- volume
- Carrier category code
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- nc
- Carrier MARC source
- rdacarrier
- Content category
- text
- Content type code
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- txt
- Content type MARC source
- rdacontent
- Contents
- Introduction -- The beginnings of human judgment -- The chemistry, economics, and psychology of praise -- Blame: the necessity and devastation of guilt and shame -- Family judgments, family systems -- Just friends: praise and blame between peers -- Intimate judgments: praise and blame within couples -- Professional dues: praise and blame in the workplace -- Social media and the new challenges to our judgment meter -- Lifelong judgments
- Control code
- on1010585049
- Dimensions
- 22 cm
- Edition
- First Edition.
- Extent
- vii, 314 pages
- Isbn
- 9780393247855
- Lccn
- 2017048506
- Media category
- unmediated
- Media MARC source
- rdamedia
- Media type code
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- n
- System control number
- (OCoLC)1010585049
- Label
- Passing judgment : praise and blame in everyday life, Terri Apter
- Bibliography note
- Includes bibliographical references (pages 253-304) and index
- Carrier category
- volume
- Carrier category code
-
- nc
- Carrier MARC source
- rdacarrier
- Content category
- text
- Content type code
-
- txt
- Content type MARC source
- rdacontent
- Contents
- Introduction -- The beginnings of human judgment -- The chemistry, economics, and psychology of praise -- Blame: the necessity and devastation of guilt and shame -- Family judgments, family systems -- Just friends: praise and blame between peers -- Intimate judgments: praise and blame within couples -- Professional dues: praise and blame in the workplace -- Social media and the new challenges to our judgment meter -- Lifelong judgments
- Control code
- on1010585049
- Dimensions
- 22 cm
- Edition
- First Edition.
- Extent
- vii, 314 pages
- Isbn
- 9780393247855
- Lccn
- 2017048506
- Media category
- unmediated
- Media MARC source
- rdamedia
- Media type code
-
- n
- System control number
- (OCoLC)1010585049
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